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Will Playing With Dolls Affect Your Childs Future Self Esteem

By: Donna Chaffins | Date: May 30, 2013 | Categories: Children, Guest Posts, Parenting

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Most children at some point in their life have owned and played with a doll, whether a rag doll, or the ever popular Barbie Doll.  For many years psychologists and other professionals have tried to analyze whether playing with dolls has or will affect your child’s self-esteem.

Today, this topic is still controversial. Some studies have been actually done to determine whether playing with dolls had any effects on a child’s future self-esteem. As a parent you’re always looking at ways for your child not to be vulnerable.

Look Like A Barbie

Some may argue and think that the Barbie doll as an example was created to inspire young girls to be doctors, or lawyers, as those types of dolls were produced. While others say that the overall look of the doll can affect the child’s self-esteem because they want to look like the doll and later in life become obsessed about certain things they are unhappy about on their body and do everything it takes to look like the Barbie they once played with from surgeries to eating disorders, etc.

will playing with dolls affect your child's self esteem

Teach Values

On the other hand there are dolls such as the American Girl Dolls that depict certain historical periods and their characters and values. These dolls come with books that teach young children certain values such as the importance of family, friends, giving,

caring and compassion. Through these characters, children learn about how it was growing up in the past and are able to compare it to today if they continue with their collections.

Some parents don’t allow their children to play with the dolls to protect them from certain psychological and physical damages that may occur in the future. On the other hand there are those parents that will buy their children anything just to keep them occupied and not realize the impact it may have on the child in the long run.

will playing with dolls affect your child's self esteem

On the extreme side, there are those parents that actually support having their children look like a plastic figure and love watching their children dress up and put on makeup and high heels. Even though this may be considered pretending and perfectly innocent, parents fail to stop and think of whether there might be long term consequences and effects as the child grows older. This can lead to dolls for girls receiving as much criticism as they do praise for their impact on children growing up and on society in general.

Again it’s up to the parent to monitor and limit the level of play and activities with any doll and not have their entire childhood revolve around the doll.

The Bottom Line

It is very easy to forget, among the controversy and variety of opinions, that, as playthings, dolls actually have much value when it comes to children.  Parents who engage with their children during playtime can help to direct how they feel and react, and use dolls to promote social and emotional development, in addition to any other learning benefits, as opposed to materialistic concerns including how they look.

Yes, playing with dolls can affect your child’s self esteem, but it is important to recognize that this can be for the better, not just in a negative manner.

Kate is head of a local charity as well as an independent CPA. In her spare time she loves collecting dolls for girls. When not working or adding to her collection, Kate loves spending time with her grandchildren.

5 Responses to Will Playing With Dolls Affect Your Childs Future Self Esteem

  1. It probably depends on the doll (and lots of other things too) but personally, I played with lots of Barbie’s growing up, and then I wanted to look like one, so I knew my daughters, if I had any, wouldn’t play with them.

  2. Children are impressionable so anything and everything affects them, whether that be for the good or the bad. It’s really up to the parent to decide what they will expose their kids to and if they help steer the impact it will have on them. Fortunately, dolls creep my daughter out so she always plays with stuffed animals. Still, I would listen in on her play conversations and address certain ‘personalities’ she attributed to them.

  3. Julie Wood says:

    I loved playing with my Barbie when I was a child, and so did my daughter. I do not have any problems from playing with my dolls, there was a lot of social interaction with my friends, and we loved playing with our dolls for hours.

  4. Marcie W. says:

    If we’re touching on body image, then let’s start with the media and advertisers who feature size 6 women in their curvy campaigns. Self worth and self esteem starts at home with love, praise and respect!

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